Waterbuck2008
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Yep, definitely a camera in the Men's Room.
in early October I will be best man in a wedding, I have invited a date and am wondering if it’s appropriate to offer her money for wedding attire?
Nevermind my previous post. @BourbonTrail has it much better nailed.Just tell your gf you are willing to chip in because of the inconvenience to her friend, and then let her handle it.
This is above any man’s pay grade.
I wouldn’t be too sure of that, this particular forum seems to be one of the last refuges for Sensible well adjusted men. Ex. 1 a younger man namely me can still feel comfortable asking a question such as this knowing that while there may be a difference of opinion it would not result in ridicule or insults. I’d wager not many forums can say the same.On a more serious note, social mores and etiquette vary so much depending on local culture, demographics etc that an international forum like this is probably the last place to ask for advice.
What I have done is actually go shopping together and make a date out of it. Makes it a little bit more fun and engaging.Good evening gentlemen, I have a conundrum and was hoping so of you gentleman could share some wisdom.
in early October I will be best man in a wedding, I have invited a date and am wondering if it’s appropriate to offer her money for wedding attire? It would be done with the best of intentions but the way the world is now I’m unsure if it will be interpreted as such.
Nevermind my previous post. Should have read the rest of the thread.Great advice, Mark. Although his taking the girlfriend's friend to this wedding is where the more strategic problems arise.
It's an expensive affair, so state this case making an offer. She's a friend.......... simply not looking for her to be out of pocket for what’s accentually a favour to me. ...........
I very much doubt that but appreciate the sentimentIt's an expensive affair, so state this case making an offer. She's a friend.
Have fun at the party.
@Bullthrower338My experience is things usually go really bad borrowing your girlfriend’s friend for the evening! Typically she will be much more fun than your girlfriend and then there is the booze and then she sees what a cool cat you are talking about guns and hunting all night with your buddies! She says to herself “ my friend is so lucky to have this guy that loves to talk about guns!” She is super turned on by the story of Black Death looking at you like you owe him money she just can’t help herself, you find yourself in a stall in the men’s room! No way in hell is that going to happen! Offer to cover her costs and treat her as your girlfriend hopes you will!