I work 5 days a week with children who present with all these labels
It is difficult to understand the origins of their ‘conditions’
Usually they get to me after having been removed from mainstream school and can’t easily cope in schools for children with ''special educational needs''
I’ve found there is (if not a causational link) an exacerbation of their condition as a consequence of a range of factors
Chaotic family circumstances
Poor discipline in both family and school
Inability to concentrate - (phones and the internet are definitely an issue)
Lack of self esteem - many have 'learned to fail' when they come to me
The stuff we do here is based around bushcraft, range shooting and 4 x 4 driving
it is geared towards developing personal responsibility, concentration, teamwork and trust
Some still try and be the smart arse - they are given a choice - grow up or push off
I don't (can't!) tolerate bullshit - what we do is potentially dangerous
If they stick with it they all learn to shoot .22LR (most can hit a 1" gong at 100m 'some' of the time)
I also try and teach them a bit of ballistics, car maintenance, reversing a trailer
Several struggle to add up their scores on the target - a few can't add 9 plus 3 - even at 13 years old!
One of the 'fun exercises' I run is placing a competent driver in the jeep with an adult in the passenger seat
The driver is blindfolded and receives instructions from his team mate in order to navigate a course
They learn team work, trust, thinking ahead, giving precise instructions, using a radio
Been doing it now for 8 years
One lad sleeps all day at school - he uses sleep as a way of disengaging
Here he is different fella all together