You and I are in agreement on everything in your post, but it still does not answer the real question that is central to the debate.
Did Israel start this war never having made any attempt to create a method for destroying Iran's nuclear weapons production, but instead has known they will need the United States to do the job?
To directly answer the question "What is your responsibility to your people? What actions can you take?
The primary responsibility of any head of state is to protect the people of that state. Providing the equipment and training for your armed forces is the most basic component of an armed defense.
Having allies is always advisable, but have a plan to fill the gap if those allies are unwilling or unable to come to your defense.
To leave your security to others with no alternative plan is not good leadership.
If I were responsible for a plan to take out Iran's nuclear weapons development program, here is what I'd propose. You need 3 things, a weapon capable of deep penetration and explosive power, a vehicle to deliver it to the target area, and possibly a guidance system. One component will obviously decide the feasibility of the other components.
Israel has no ballistic missiles or bombers capable of lifting the type of weapon we are talking about. Israel DOES have the 103rd heavy lift Squadron that has at least 7 C130-J30 Super Hercules. If my information is correct, these have a max lift of 45,000lbs. Not ideal, but a viable platform similar to that used for the 15,000lb BLU-82 Daisy Cutter.
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The bomb itself could be similar to our MOP, but I would go in a different direction. Rather than use high altitude and inertia, I think explosive velocity would be far superior. The MOP has a velocity of 1450fps. Comp B and other explosives can do over 10X that.
In the U.S. inventory we use M3E2 40lb shape charges for demolition work. These are placed on a small steel stand to provide a standoff that gives the copper lined warhead the distance to form into a carrot shaped projectile. These shape charges create a hole that is then filled with the ANFO explosive I mentioned earlier. The copper coned shape charge, usually in tandem, is exactly what we use to defeat tank armor. Depending on soil composition, a 40lb shape charge can penetrate 15-25ft.
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BTW, most so called "Experts" will tell you that shape charges form a jet, and this jet penetrates the target. This is false. I have in my personal collection several of the copper carrot shaped projectiles I recovered from Coleman Demolition Range on FBNC. It is a copper projectile travelling nearly 15,000fps that provides the penetration. A high pressure jet does follow the projectile and increases the size of the hole in many cases.
Using these same principles, we simply scale thing up. I would use 6ft diameter steel pipe, load a copper cone tandem shape charge into the pipe with a standoff fuze extender.
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What we will have built is a 1,828mm, 15,000lb tandem shape charge bomb with a projectile travelling 15-20,000fps!
Nothing the Iranians have built would stand up to this. Two or three of these on any given target would no only penetrate the best concrete Iran has, but destroy anything under it.
Israel has built Merkava tanks, so forging a copper cone and loading it into a steel pipe should present no great challenge.
Israel has Parachute Riggers familiar with airdrops similar to this, so the airdrop platform is not beyond their present capabilities.
Israel also has guidance systems that could be adapted to this project. Unguided versions could still be successful, but calculate 3X the number would be needed.
The obvious question is why didn't we build something like this? The answer is because we wouldn't use a slow non stealth aircraft when we have higher altitude capable B2 Spirit bombers. If israel is left with no how and no way to do it, this is the path I'd take.