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French politician wants the statue of liberty back.......lol.
Exactly. Which is why I’m not really big on saying others need to “assimilate”Sounds to me your version of assimilation falls right in line with what Canada did with the residential schools for native people;
The noted graves at the Saskatchewan school had been in control of the band for decades. So it’s not like they were a secret in any way, shape, or form. No one involved cared enough to look after them, Whites and Natives alike.I believe the counterpoint is "mass graves" where they randomly dumped bodies, versus piss-poor maintenance of graveyards where markers were lost or destroyed just like occurs all over America's small towns.
I'm not defending residential boarding schools, but the left really wants a narrative of mass burials ala the Holocaust to be the implication, yet it doesn't appear to be the truth. Thus, they are using inaccurate terms to create a false narrative.
Exactly. Which is why I’m not really big on saying others need to “assimilate”
On Nov 1st (prior to the election).. the S&P was at 5728... today it closed at 5638...
all things considered we're not exactly in a bad place right now.. we're 90 points from where we were prior to the election..
Even though I'm happily married, I'm a student of dating culture because I think it foretells the future of our country by looking carefully what Gen Y and Z are thinking and doing.
The reason people aren't breeding seems complicated, but at the end of the day its 4th wave feminism.
The causes go like this: Hypergamy exists at present where women are promiscuous and they may only be a 3-5 on a 10 point scale girl. They bed an 8 or 9 once and they delude themselves into thinking they are an 8 or a 9. Thus, they treat viable suitors as non-humans. Statistically, all the women are chasing the top-echelon of men. Add to this, women have always been attracted to successful men that make more than they do, but with DEI women are making higher wages which results in them having unattainable standards for men. In a recent study of women versus men on the Tinder, they found conclusively that women would swipe affirmatively on only the empirically most attractive men, whereas men would swipe affirmatively at a broad swath of women of various attractiveness. Not good.
There is a relevant internet meme about women "finding themselves" and then "ready to settle down". It's not a complimentary meme. Nothing becomes more valuable with use. We're ending up with a herd of women that do not know how to be wives, seek to compete rather than cooperate with men, and are only considering marriage (if ever) by the time they have geriatric pregnancies leading to smaller families.
This then leads to the other problem with marriage and family. What most men want is a supportive spouse and mother with traditional gender roles. Women of the of the younger generations do not know how to be spouses and mothers and they are also untrustworthy considering they file for divorce 80% of the time whereas men file only 20% of the time. Every element of a marriage contract for a man's role is contractually enforceable: A.) providing money, B.) Visitation / raising the children, C.) providing medical care, etc. Every element of the female's duties in a marriage is not contractual enforceable: A.) Sex, B.) Attention, C.) Pleasant, D.) Good homemaker, E.) Loving. Thus, many young men do not want to marry knowing they are likely to become divorced and pay dearly financially for it whereas the woman brings little to the table or believes they ARE the table through a sense of entitlement.
There's a popular dating podcast called the @whatever where they go around the room every episode and ask the women to rate their own looks. Virtually no woman gives an accurate appraisal and most say stupid things like a 10.5 on a 10 point scale. Almost all the men give accurate appraisals be it a 4 or a 6.
The problems have become so severe that they call it female delusion syndrome. There is a website you can go to and input the lists of demands a woman has in a potential partner. Without fail, most women list their non-negotiables and it results in them seeking the top, top 1/10th of 1% of all men.
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Female Delusion Calculator
What are the chances to find the man of your dreams? - Live search on US survey data.igotstandardsbro.com
All this stems from female promiscuity and hive mind thinking. If a slutty girl sleeps with one guy one time that is far above her class, she deludes herself into thinking she can MARRY a guy of those attributes which is never the case.
AOC & Bernie have arrived here in Colorado for an event. These two do not qualify as "smart D strategists". My wager is they will produce several meme worthy quotes.across the board, D's appear to be at the lowest approval point in more than 30 years according to two different polls conducted by CNN and NBC
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Democratic Party's favorability hits record lows in two polls after 2024 losses
As Democrats continues to recoup post-election, voters are expressing deep dissatisfaction with the party on the left.www.usatoday.com
What I find most interesting is.. these polls were conducted BEFORE Schumer pushed to have the CR passed (working with R's to make that happen).. and that both before and after this occurred you still see the overwhelming majority of D leaders doubling down on all of the things that got them where they are in the first place (extreme left agendas, theatrics rather than substance, refusal to work with the other side or attempt to meet in the middle, etc etc)..
Youd think there would be at least a few smart D strategists walking the halls of the nations capital that understood how they got to where they are, the path they are currently on, and how its not helping.. that would be advocating a different approach..
As much as people are getting bent out of shape over some of the Trump administration's actions and are pointing to the mid terms claiming that all of this ends in less than 2 years because voters are going to be frustrated, D's will take back the house and/or the senate, etc..
I have to wonder if that "red wave" that everyone talked about in 2022 doesn't happen in November of 2026..
If the D's cant figure out to get the American people to see their party in a favorable light, the only D's left on the hill are going to be the ones from the most extreme left districts.. which frankly wont be enough to matter...
When NBC is telling us that only 27% of Americans see the D party favorably (and only 7% very favorably).. and CNN says 29% of Americans see the D party favorably.. and that 52% of D's say their party is taking the wrong approach to achieve its goals and objectives.. that should speak very loudly to their leadership..
This should also speak very loudly to the rest of the worlds leaders.. I wouldn't be placing any heavy bets on things "changing" as soon as the end of 2026.. it would appear there is a pretty strong chance that not only will things remain the same after the mid terms.. but that the current administration might be further emboldened..
It will be interesting to see if in coming weeks we see more Ilhan Omar, AOC, Pelosi, etc.. rantings and ravings.. or more from the more reserved and moderate D's...
Agreed, for people 40 and younger in the USA children are seen as a status symbol.I would argue that most of the people that I know who don’t have children cite the lack of a safety net as one of the reasons not to have them. The expense of a raising kids including the cost of education is the biggest reason people I know choose not to have them. They can save for retirement and old age or have kids but not both in their minds.
@rookhawk You hit several nails square on the head, as a single man I can say that simply trying to date modern women can be insufferable......There is a relevant internet meme about women "finding themselves" and then "ready to settle down". It's not a complimentary meme. Nothing becomes more valuable with use. We're ending up with a herd of women that do not know how to be wives, seek to compete rather than cooperate with men, and are only considering marriage (if ever) by the time they have geriatric pregnancies leading to smaller families.
Yep, I put off having kids because I didn't want to have children grow up in the same instability that I did(even with 2 working parents); now I'm in the land of single mothers.It is also hard if you are part of the younger generation and put off having children until you owned a home and felt you were financially secure enough to have children to find a mate with the same values. Your left with dealing with the fallout of other people’s poor life decisions and having a mixed home anyway or simply walking away from the whole mess all together. Call me old fashioned but all those who reside under my roof will carry my name.
Yeah--bring on more of this kind of analysis. When I started dating it was, meet, hold hands, then date/kiss, then go steady, then consider engagement then get married and have children.
Now, it's hook up, have sex to see if you get along, then live together, then have children, maybe get married, often after the second child.
Right .... because there are bodies yet to be exhumed from the bottom of Pearl harbor aboard the Arizona, so no need to pay any respects to the men that remain there; better take down those name plaques as the remains of each man hasn't been removed and identified personally.But maybe don't post so confidentally about 751 bodies being found when not a single body has been exhumed. It's exactly the type of thing they want to happen for their benefit.
I watched the beginning of a not so compelling video on the topic of one of these schools and the evidence was in short, a first hand account of a younger boy being told by an older boy not to go down to the orchard at night because there were holes down there. Clearly evidence of mass slaughter and definitely not a kid being messed with or simple juvenile rumor mill.
now I'm in the land of single mothers.
The auto pen arguments will go nowhere. The pardon for any crime you may have committed before charged is a much better argument
Agreed, for people 40 and younger in the USA children are seen as a status symbol.
The only people I know actively trying to have children are those who were born into financial advantage or those who simply give no thought to how they will provide for the future of their children.
@rookhawk You hit several nails square on the head, as a single man I can say that simply trying to date modern women can be insufferable......
Pre date Expenses - For you old timers out there that have been happily married for ages; what would you have said if your wife had asked you for "Pre date expenses" when you asked her out?
Where by she expected you to pay for her to have her hair and nails done before the date, Yes I assure you it's a real thing that some women try to pull.... this is also done to test how much money you have and how easy it will be to extract that money from you.
I've never paid predate expenses and never will, but I will say that I have been asked for a credit card on the second date!
Ghosting - Women that will agree to a date and exchange numbers and continue communicating up until time to meet and then will simply block you at the last minute.
Own or rent - A recent survey of my single male friends revealed that all 6 of us have been asked if we own or rent as a prerequisite to going on a date.
Sugar Daddy/Only Fans - Given the number of onlyfans accounts in the USA divided by population of women 18-45yo shows that 3% of the 18-45yo women in America are selling nude images and videos of themselves online..... Who doesn't want to marry someone who can be seen naked by the entire world for $5 a month?
Likewise the sugar daddy culture has taken off by means of apps and it's shockingly prevalent.
I dated a 25yo in Austin for 3 months that was a grad student, officer in her sorority and came from wealthy parents who paid for all her expenses.... Which made it shocking to find out that she had a 60yo sugar daddy that was paying her a monthly "Allowance" in exchange for her affection.
I confronted her about it when I found out and she explained that while her parents, paid for all her expenses they were unwilling to pay for her Louis Vuitton purses or the Brazilian butt lift she wanted; and beside......"It's no big deal everybody is doing it"
Yep, I put off having kids because I didn't want to have children grow up in the same instability that I did(even with 2 working parents); now I'm in the land of single mothers.
Single mothers are not looking for a husband, their looking for a paycheck and someone to help raise the child of the absentee father that they endlessly complain about.
GOD help you if you ask her why she decided to have a child with a man that is as horrible as she describes......
A legal question to you. What about the autopen pardons in DC when Biden was in the Caribbean. Does that make a difference.
I suspect they will withstand challenges. Any attempt to revoke them will be aggressively appealed, and it is unlikely that any court through SCOTUS will be eager to dilute in any form the President's absolute right to issue pardons and commutations.Been watching that pretty closely....have listened to a number of legal types, I'm not one of those, that say the autopen pardons are probably not going to stand if challenged since "the President" must grant the pardon and there is no way to verify that he did so in this case....will be interesting to watch. Read that Hunter's pardon has a physical signature, that seems a bit curious.......
Good advice, but there are limitations and many have to do with age difference between you and I.Since you're in the dating scene, might I give you a bit of older guy advice?
Use eHarmony. Spend a LOT of time on your profile. Get a coach to help you design your profile to intrigue the women. There are 3 women for every 2 men, so statistically from the start you are going to "marry up". Women are hedonistic and will swipe for only the 9s and 10s on Tinder, so you're out competed. How do you beat them at their own game? Women get their lust going from the love letter, it's worked since Victorian times. eHarmony is structured for guided communications. As you reveal more about each other, the women are DYING to meet you in person and are already totally rev'd up about you because it laid a foundation of interest before the first date. This is how come you see knockout 60 year old women married to ugly men, the guys were able to build the ties by using the written form to tie the hearts of a woman like a harlequin romance novel. Getting women to like you is easier than wading through all of them to find a quality one, that's where it becomes a serious numbers game with a strategy about how you portray yourself accurately but cleverly on a dating site.
Then date at least 2-3 women a week. On your first or second date, hit them with heavy questions so you can get rid of the bad ones without spending any more money. I asked my wife on first date "how would you feel about being a stay at home mother?". Any woman that said hell no to that question got ghosted by me instantly. I broke a LOT of hearts on eHarmony because I had the system nailed and I knew the algorithm to get 7 matches a day and i was speaking to dozens of women at a go. But I found a wife in 6 months that was a "Trad wife" in an otherwise bleak modern world.
I helped a friend on this forum do this very thing recently. He's going steady with a woman 8 years his younger after only two weeks using eHarmony.
eHarmony advertises as a site for committed relationships, therefore you get maybe 5%-10% quality women versus perhaps 1:1000 on tinder, at bars, nightclubs, etc.
Right .... because there are bodies yet to be exhumed from the bottom of Pearl harbor aboard the Arizona, so no need to pay any respects to the men that remain there; better take down those name plaques as the remains of each man hasn't been removed and identified personally.
Can't wait to tell my great aunt that the Arizona is NOT a war grave because her brothers body was never exhumed and individually identified, I'm sure she will be relieved, I mean she only knows what allegedly happened because someone told her about it when she was a kid......
Probably a juvenile rumor mill thing.
Good advice, but there are limitations and many have to do with age difference between you and I.
I did eharmony years ago and it was like having a second job, I never had a problem with getting matched. The problem was the AVALACHE of broke single mothers and filtering through them.
I am not a wealthy man but have lived a minimalist life and had a decent career before covid, I've only owned 2 vehicles in the last 23 years and if I'm going to spend money it's going to be on travel, guns & hunting..... and per your female delusion calculator I'm in the top 0.33% of the male population for my height, ethnicity, income & age bracket.
The eharmony thing became such a joke at one point we turned it into office entertainment by displaying the matches and messages I got with my honest profile and then we switched to entertainment mode.
I put on my good watch and one of my suits and we took my picture next to my bosses Aston Martin, then of me dressed casually grilling beside the pool of my bosses lake front mansion and finally me fishing from the back of a friends LARGE boat.
My god how the high end P*&%Y and broke moms both came out of the wood work and in ultra aggressive fashion!