IdaRam
AH legend
Hi John,
Because this seemed to start as a misunderstanding between you and I, I feel compelled to try to help bring some clarity and resolution so that perhaps we can all move on?
The following is offered in a polite and courteous way. I say that in an effort to set the tone and make clear at the outset that no matter how this may be read, my hope is that none of the following is meant in an impolite or disrespectful manner.
This issue might be a perfect example of how written words can make communication much more tricky than when communicating verbally. Facial expressions, tone, inflection, etc are missing. Not to mention everyone writes in a bit of a different style and comprehends written communication differently than verbal communication.
One thing we all must keep in mind here is that this is very much an international forum. We have members from all over the globe. Our perspectives are very diverse and our view of “politics” especially is invariably shaped by the environment in which we exist. Many folks from countries such as Germany, Australia, Spain, Russia, Iceland, etc, etc, etc may have a very different view of the USA as what you and I do.
They are also free to express their points of view. And while at times it may anger and frustrate us to hear some of their views, it is also a chance for learning and understanding, as well as possibly offering a different perspective and changing someone’s opinion if it is negative.
My point is, there are just as many folks who are not American here as there are members from the U.S. The founder of AH is Namibian. Super Moderator @BRICKBURN is Canadian. Us Americans are guests here just like everyone else.
This little dust up began with you quoting a post of mine in such a way that I thought you were calling me out for my stance on an issue and throwing in the towel on your membership. Hell, I thought you were hacking on the USA not agreeing with me. I now know you were agreeing with me, but it sure didn’t come across that way initially.
Additionally, I would like to point out that this exchange took place on Friday and the last post I see relating to it was on Saturday, yet you mention you come back a few days later and it is still going on. No, several people posted the following day, Saturday, there just hasn’t been much posted since Saturday so it appears it’s still going on. Check the dates. Just as yourself, people go away for a day or two and then discover posts a day or two later which they have a comment on.
I offer this as what appears to be another mis-perception.
You categorized some of the replies as hate mail. I don’t think that is accurate. I think folks in general, not just myself, are having a hard time relating to and understanding you. No one is sending you hate mail.
I think if you go back with a fresh set of eyes and a perspective of trying to understand what happened here and what folks are saying, it may make some sense.
There is a saying: “Seek to understand before being understood”.
Without exception, every person who has posted on this line of discussion is a reasonable individual and regularly do, in fact, seek to understand.
I politely and respectfully ask you to consider what I’ve written here, read through the posts again and come back with a fresh approach.
Than you
Dan
Because this seemed to start as a misunderstanding between you and I, I feel compelled to try to help bring some clarity and resolution so that perhaps we can all move on?
The following is offered in a polite and courteous way. I say that in an effort to set the tone and make clear at the outset that no matter how this may be read, my hope is that none of the following is meant in an impolite or disrespectful manner.
This issue might be a perfect example of how written words can make communication much more tricky than when communicating verbally. Facial expressions, tone, inflection, etc are missing. Not to mention everyone writes in a bit of a different style and comprehends written communication differently than verbal communication.
One thing we all must keep in mind here is that this is very much an international forum. We have members from all over the globe. Our perspectives are very diverse and our view of “politics” especially is invariably shaped by the environment in which we exist. Many folks from countries such as Germany, Australia, Spain, Russia, Iceland, etc, etc, etc may have a very different view of the USA as what you and I do.
They are also free to express their points of view. And while at times it may anger and frustrate us to hear some of their views, it is also a chance for learning and understanding, as well as possibly offering a different perspective and changing someone’s opinion if it is negative.
My point is, there are just as many folks who are not American here as there are members from the U.S. The founder of AH is Namibian. Super Moderator @BRICKBURN is Canadian. Us Americans are guests here just like everyone else.
This little dust up began with you quoting a post of mine in such a way that I thought you were calling me out for my stance on an issue and throwing in the towel on your membership. Hell, I thought you were hacking on the USA not agreeing with me. I now know you were agreeing with me, but it sure didn’t come across that way initially.
Additionally, I would like to point out that this exchange took place on Friday and the last post I see relating to it was on Saturday, yet you mention you come back a few days later and it is still going on. No, several people posted the following day, Saturday, there just hasn’t been much posted since Saturday so it appears it’s still going on. Check the dates. Just as yourself, people go away for a day or two and then discover posts a day or two later which they have a comment on.
I offer this as what appears to be another mis-perception.
You categorized some of the replies as hate mail. I don’t think that is accurate. I think folks in general, not just myself, are having a hard time relating to and understanding you. No one is sending you hate mail.
I think if you go back with a fresh set of eyes and a perspective of trying to understand what happened here and what folks are saying, it may make some sense.
There is a saying: “Seek to understand before being understood”.
Without exception, every person who has posted on this line of discussion is a reasonable individual and regularly do, in fact, seek to understand.
I politely and respectfully ask you to consider what I’ve written here, read through the posts again and come back with a fresh approach.
Than you
Dan