I married well
It didnt matter how many jobs I had (at one point I worked 1 FT job with quite a bit of OT as well as a PT job, as well as running my own small business on the side, and consistently was putting in 85-90 hours a week at "work") when I was married to my starter wife... she's was a serious spender, and never much of a contributor at all to household income.. she kept us on the edge of financial ruin the entire time we were married.. combine that with 3 young kids in the house, etc.. and there simply wasnt enough money left over for much of anything during my late 20's - late 30's, much less trying to hunt internationally (although the nature of my work allowed me to travel a decent bit back then and see Africa, Europe, Central America, etc)..
Once I fired the starter wife, things changed dramatically.. I was able to pay the bills without having to work 90 hours a week, while still able to put money aside, save for things I wanted or wanted to do, etc...
Marrying the wonderful woman that I am now bonded to improved things that much more.. not only is she my best friend, hunting partner (far more serious about hunting, fishing, traveling internationally, etc than even I am), and the bigger gun nut of the two of us.. she also is a very capable breadwinner in her own right, has had a very successful career, is in a profession that compensates well, etc..etc..
Its a bit more expensive supporting two safari junkies in the same household than it would be to just support myself.. especially when Im just as happy just walking on the red dirt paths, hunting impala, or blesbok, or warthog as anything else.. and my tastes in firearms are pretty basic (I mostly shoot winchesters and rugers)... where she prefers the more exotic/rare/harder to hunt animals, and her firearms preferences start with things like kimber and custom mausers on the low end and go up from there..
But between our two incomes and the blessing of two successful careers, doing an international hunt or two a year isnt a hard stretch as long as we're not chasing the truly high cost trophys in the more high cost locations, etc..
We also live well within our means in other areas, which gives us more discretionary income than most of our peers.. We have a nice home in a nice suburb.. but its not at the high end of what we can afford (the last two homes we have purchased, both the real estate agent and the bankers have been confused as to why we werent shopping for homes that were hundreds of thousands dollars more expensive than what we have bought.. we simply dont need or want that much, and would prefer to travel and hunt than be anchored by a big mortgage.. we both drive vehicles until the wheels fall off.. Im currently driving a base model 2013 pick up truck.. she's driving a 2011 crossover vehicle.. she'll probably get something new later this year.. I'll wait another year or two.. but then we'll drive those new vehicles at least 8-10 years before we buy again.. we dont do the new car thing every 2-3 years like a lot of people do.. Neither of us have expensive hobbies or habits outside of hunting and fishing.. neither of us drink, smoke, etc with any regularity.. We dont dine on steak and lobster or other expensive meals with any frequency (although we probably do spend too much time and money eating "out" and should cut that back a bit).. So our monthly outgo is pretty reasonable..
We're not in a position where we could just pick up and go on an ele hunt in Zim without doing some planning and saving for a while.. but our life choices do make it possible for us to wake up on any given morning and have conversations like "what do you think about chasing red stag in Ireland next year? lets find an outfitter and send a deposit to someone this month.." without any real problem or concerns..
Being able to do that didnt happen overnight though.. Its taken both of us trudging through 30+ years of a career path, working our collective cans off, being somewhat frugal with our money and making the conscious choice not to spend on things that we dont find a lot of value in that we know a lot of other people spend large amounts of money on, etc.. and simply being shown the grace of God multiple times along the way (more than once we have faced a financial peril, or some other problem that could have thrown the brakes on all of our plans and designs.. but thankfully we have yet to hit an obstacle that wasnt overcomeable.. )