I believe thus is where I am. The problem is, if I pay it, I'm just a cuck who can be stepped-on/walked-on so who cares. I'm already bitter. I don't want to hang out with the PH nor be dependent on someone who obviously thinks I'm a doormat.
If I don't pay, and push them into honoring the original contract, then the PH will be bitter, and again, I'm not interested in spending time with someone who thinks I'm a jerk. I definitely don't want to be dependent on them.
At this point, I'm pretty sure I'm done with this company. The only question remaining is do they give me my deposit back? If so, I could forget the whole thing. I'm still going to be out $3k for airfare but not $8k.
Or, it gets a little bit nasty.
Thank you all very much for sharing your insights and experiences. I couldn't find anyone to partner up with so this trip is solo. This wonderful group of people on this wonderful forum is awesome and invaluable.
You guys are AWESOME!
Thanks again!
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