CB
I'm not terribly surprised that Craig Boddington (who, for the record, I've never met) decided to leave this site. But I am very disappointed.
Regardless of what you may think of Boddington personally, his departure is a loss for AfricaHunting.com and for all of its members. There are very few hunters alive today who have Boddington's experience with African hunting, and none that I know of who are prepared to share that extensive experience with all of us. And no, I'm not naive. I understand that his being a sponsor was undoubtedly a business decision, but it was a fact that he and his staff were prepared to, and did, engage with members. And now, that opportunity is gone.
Some will undoubtedly say "so what" or "who cares", but the reality is that none of you who believe those things have the right to speak for all of us. I'm sure you will say you weren't speaking for all of us, just for yourselves. But, in fact, you were.
If you don't like someone, or you don't like what they have to say, or how they say it, then for heaven's sake, don't read what they say, or take them on on what they say. But when you raise utterly irrelevant matters and behave like a pack of rabid dogs - or trolls - it can't be a surprise that the target of your vitriol decides he's not in it for this.
By all means, take on someone's hunting credentials. But to bring someone's personal life into the forum, and especially their financial affairs, which are completely unrelated to the purposes of this forum, and then to go on, and on, and on, ad nauseam, refusing to let it go, even when so many members tried to get the conversation away from the irrelevant facts, is not only necessary, it's entirely uncalled for.
I'm sure many, if not most, of us, have something in our past which we'd rather not have paraded on the internet. If I know a member has a drinking problem, should I raise that? If a member had a DUI, should I put his mug shot in a post in response to a hunting issue? If I know a member has had an affair, even a public one, should I publish that for the world to see?
You don't get a pass on this kind of conduct just because the information is already a matter of public record. It wasn't relevant to hunting and it wasn't relevant to any debate. Some people had a hate on for someone and just decided to unleash the dogs. You want to publish that kind of crap? Go do it on the site of some scurrilous tabloid. Don't do it here. We don't want it, and we don't need it.
This is what the antis, and the crazies do on social media. Attack, attack, attack, bring in all sorts of irrelevant garbage, and then express surprise when someone says they won't stick around for a gutter fight. That's what this became, and it wasn't necessary and it sure wasn't edifying.
You've also impacted Jerome's business. If I were Boddington, I wouldn't have much positive to tell people who might be considering becoming sponsors. And before you waste my time, no, I'm not saying we can't or shouldn't, take on sponsors, even to the point of their leaving the site. When they've done something relevant to what's going on here, or to the members, then of course, we should take them on. The actions of bad apples should be exposed to the light of day, and if they leave over that, then good riddance. Jerome understands that, and that goes with the territory. But the we drive sponsors away for personal reasons, or for reasons unrelated to hunting or to anything they've done or posted here? He hasn't signed up for that.
Which sponsor should we drive out of the site next, for irrelevant or spurious reasons?
This behaviour is a major reason why good people don't want to have anything to do with politics, and it seems some believe that we should we import it here. Well, to those of you who participated, you owe Boddington, Jerome and the rest of us an apology, and you should have the decency to be ashamed of yourselves.
But I won't wait for any of that to happen.