I have a couple of DD rifles, one of them is a near stock DDM4v11 Pro, it shoots as well as any other AR I own. I had it at a DMR class a while back, shooting 55gr ball ammo, I was ringing steel out to 750. It is a 1:7 twist, so I mostly run 77gr SMK, it will do sub-MOA all day. I also have an MK18, it is my rifle I would grab if I needed a rifle in the worst way.
I have a LaRue DMR upper on an Aero lower that shoots very well. LaRue ultimate upper package is a really good deal, I have one in 5.56 and 6.5cm. Just throw it on an Aero or Spikes lower, drop in a nice trigger and you are good to go. BCM also makes a very reasonably priced upper, plus they actually have some in stock.
If you are looking to buy several and just stack them for later, any of the M&P line is pretty good for the money. 6 months ago was the time to buy in bulk, but they are still cheaper today than they might be 6 months from now. I bought a pile of them back in 18 when things got really cheap.
I have 6.5cm and 308 Larue uppers, both shoot very well, but lightweight is the last term I would use to describe them, if you are looking for lighter weight AR-10s, building one out is likely the best route. Faxon makes a 16" 308 barrel that is super light, so not really made for run and gun type stuff. 2A Xanthos receiver set is the best of the lightweight crowd, IMO. If you pick the parts right, you can get under 7lbs very easy, and with a proper recoil system, it will be easy to shoot.
Spare parts to stock: buffer springs, cotter pins, gas rings, extractors/springs, and gas tubes. All of which are very cheap parts, you can get a replacement set for every rifle for under $20 apiece.