I am not a PH or guide. I have never been one and I've never played one on TV.
However, I am going to share this because, over the years, it has gotten a lot of positive feedback from PHs, guides and outfitters.
It all began on a buffalo hunt (no, not that kind of buffalo - an American Bison). Unlike many bison hunts, this one was a free-range hunt and like Africa, it was done spot and stalk. As we headed out, my guide asked me, "So, what kind of buffalo do you want to shoot." Not a question that I had considered in advance, so after giving it about one second of thought, I replied, "A big one???" (Aren't they all big, at least in body?) He then gave the question more direction, asking if I cared about fur color, fur type; did I want one that was B&C, etc.
That elicited from me a collection of thoughts and opinions that had been in my head for a long time, but I had never articulated to anyone prior to that. I have repeated it with every subsequent guide and I now share it here for you to comment (please go easy on me).
First, for me a hunt is an intensely personal activity. I am not on the hunt (safari) to prove that my male member is bigger than that of anyone else because of the size of an animal that I may be fortunate enough to take.
I want to learn about my quarry, it's environment; to understand and learn about it; and appreciate as much as possible about both. I respect the game that I am pursuing; and in the end, I want to take a good representative animal. Yes, bigger is better. However, I'm not here for bragging rights.
It is my responsibility as the hunter to show up in the best physical condition that I can be in for this hunt. It's also my responsibility to be proficient with my weapon so I can make a clean kill.
It is the responsibility of the PH to find a suitable animal and get me into position to make that shot. It’s not that I’m not going to try to spot animals, but he is the pro.
I consider the PH to be the expert on judging any animals we see. If he tells me that animal is the one to take, I am going to get on the sticks. I am not going question his judgment. ("Are you sure?") I am not going to second guess him before the shot or after the animal is down.
Next, my PH needs to know about me. To start, I try to honestly and candidly share my personal assessment of my physical abilities and limitations.
I tell him about my shooting abilities. The range at which I'm comfortable, the longer ranges at which I'm willing to shoot if the conditions are right, and the distance beyond which I'm not willing to take a shot because I can't be confident of making a clean kill. There is no point in exaggerating.
If there are multiple species on the list for a hunt, I tell him what my priorities are.
I’ve been told that from the perspective of a PH all of this is helpful and takes a lot of pressure off of the PH. One outfitter said that, a PH may even try harder because of it. That’s not my objective, but it is interesting.