Wow! My sympathy on the Ostrich thing but hey, it's a start and one that is pretty reasonable to refuse to shoot so you have a great shot at that working out! And with that pea sized brain and evil eyes, and just being a bird, pretty hard for her to suddenly get mushy about how it is too cute or anything...
Of course I don't have that problem..... some more of my back story is we are dairy farmers and that trip (3 1/2 weeks total) was to celebrate our 30th anniversary and that we had been in business for 30 years..... But the rest of the "rest of the story" is that way back when I married that cute little 18 year old and took her from town to the farm, she was soon feeding calves... And as we were just starting our herd of Holstein milk cows and buying them here and there, we had one give birth to a very cute fuzzy black angus bull calf.... Which my sweet little wife promptly had the vet castrate and then she named him "the meat!" or just meat for short... So she petted him every day and I would hear her talking to him, "hey meat how are you doing? Be a good boy and eat some more grain." etc. Until he was about 1300 pounds and then one day she invited her father and brothers over to help put him in the freezer and she cooked him up and enjoyed him a couple times per day until he was gone!