Emails don't just get rejected! Given that the wife answered your first attempt to question progress it seems reasonable that emails were received. I bet if you had a friend send an email, obviously an unknown source to the outfitter, asking about potential hunt dates a quick response would be on it's way.
This stuff about promising that another person is going to pay for a hunt is exactly where the OP got started and we all know that didn't turn out well.
By the way
@50by50 that is a fine looking deer in your avitar !