I’ll add one more: my grandmother’s best friend used to wear a specific perfume that I have since forgotten the name. Maybe Windsong or something. She was without question the classiest lady I have ever met. Always dressed to the 9s, rings clattering, the perfect necklaces, shoes, and of course hairdo. Even as a very young kid I could tell she had an aura of sophistication and class.
Many decades after my grandmother died, out of the blue I sent her a letter to her old address I had. It was received by her daughter who had moved into her old house in Alexandria, VA, as Mary had been moved to a nursing home. The daughter sent me a note saying how much Mary appreciated the letter and she would be sure to send me a note. Several months later, I received a card from Mary, and what do I smell wafting from it? That same, distinctive perfume from 30+++ years before. She still wore it every day. Her handwriting was shaky, and her words were short, but I could tell she still had the same class as always.
That card is still in my file cabinet, now 15 years after she died, and it still smells like that perfume. To me she was an example of the passing of an age that it seems like will never return- one that my grandmother (both actually) were also a part of.
God Bless Mary Pumphrey, and her best friend, my grandmother.