At the short ranges you shoot, get a steady rest and use neck shots. No wasted meat.
Also if your gun will shoot them well, Remington CoreLokt works well for me.
The Nosler Partition is a grand bullet for North America and up to the larger Africa antelope. I think the bashing is only due to the fact that we have so much financial investment in African animals that we just want the best available bullets for a given purpose. When you pay $1500 for an animal, what does another couple of dollars matter if you might have to take a rear racking shot?
JMO and thoughts on it.
Great advice.