Im not sure the bully analogy really applies in any capacity when we're talking about Ukraine and what we should or shouldn't do about it...
@Red Leg has several times in this thread over the last 3 years of the Russia/Ukraine war said (and I 100% agree with him) that our actions should be driven by our national interests..
We shouldn't commit ourselves to dealing with bullies just because they are bullies.. the world is full of them.. we could substantiate cause for taking action in dozens of other countries right now if that was our motivation..
Other countries need to deal with their own problems as a rule.. I don't think the US needs to be the defacto world police just because we have the ability...
Who cares if Putin is a bully? or if Trump is a bully? World leaders have often been bullies since the dawn of time.. that fact will never change..
What matters (IMO) is what is in the national interest of the US.. whether that is brokering a mineral deal.. or just giving the Ukrainians anything they ask for.. or simply walking away from the conflict altogether.. or any other possible "solution" any of us can come up with, should be driven by what best serves the US strategically..
Once we all agree on that, then a sensible debate can be had about what the US national interest is... is it being more aligned with the Russians than we have been historically? is it doing whatever we can to crush the Russians economically and militarily? is it something in between?
The Europeans should be having the same conversations amongst themselves as well... What is in their strategic interest? and how can they best achieve that?
Crying, finger pointing, blaming the US for not being their "friend" and all the other nonsense that's going on doesn't solve their short term or their long term problem.. ALL relationships are two way streets.. if you don't like where you are in a relationship, the first question should be what YOU did or didn't do to get yourself in the position you are currently in?
If all you're focused on is the other party and looking for someone to blame without holding yourself accountable for the role you played, you're frankly a fool, and will just find yourself in another relationship with the same problem again later..
doesn't matter if we're talking about a relationship between a father and son, a husband and wife, two friends, or two countries, or a bully and someone being bullied.. the same rules apply..