My question is if these people can’t pay off $400 a month what the hell kind of job do they have? Probably a stupid question , I’m sure they $1000 phones $60,000 car and much more!
thats the problem in a nutshell..
of course they have low paying, entry level jobs.. they are recent grads (you would hope)...
the difference is... when I was in my young 20s and had a couple of student loans to pay off.. I did 2 things...
I worked multiple jobs.. I easily did 55-65 hours a week, every week, for the first few years I was out of school.. I had my "real" job.. plus I worked a night a week, and most saturdays at a bar earning extra cash... plus I picked up occasional shifts at a camera shop down the road.. and I was serving in the national guard.. thats simply what it took to pay my bills... I wanted to be a big boy, live on my own, and have a life.. I had no desire to live at home with mom, or have a half dozen roommates.. so I freaking worked my butt off to earn enough to make things work...
and....
I was very careful about spending... I drove a beater truck.. I never went out to eat unless I was taking someone on a date.. I didnt buy expensive electronics ($1K phones didnt exist back then, but there were plenty of other stupid things I could have foolishly spent money on.. I just didnt).. I didnt hang out in coffee shops paying $6 for a non fat latte.. etc..etc..
It took a few years.. but I paid my dues.. and by my late 20's I wasnt worried so much about finances.. I carried very little debt.. I had worked my way into a couple of promotions and was significantly better compensated, etc..etc..
Most (although certainly not all) young people these days arent interested in particularly hard work, and certainly arent interested in large volumes of work.. and they definitely think they are owed high wages despite that..
I literally had a mid 20's male (who has a fairly good amount of student loan debt) tell me just 3 or 4 weeks ago that his goal in life was to marry well and be a house husband.. he didnt want to work at all..
I asked him if he didnt realize that a housewife is one of the hardest working people I know.. you dont sit at home on your ass... if youre not going to work, youre going to be expected to do the lions share of the cleaning, cooking, caring for the kids, running family errands like getting cars serviced, doing grocery runs, etc..
he no shit thought thats what the maid was for..
when asked "how are you going to afford a maid? you dont work? and shouldnt the maid be given the same opportunity to sit on their ass all day and do nothing just like you? why should they toil for low wages? you clearly dont want to..
he just got frustrated and refused to continue the discussion..