Help me get my daughter to a safari!

1. Father Daughter Bonding
2. Life Lessons
3. Starting Traditions

Father Daughter bonding! This is an amazing opportunity for the two of you to spend some quality time together and an opportunity that you may not get again with your oldest daughter. I recently took my 17 y/o daughter on her first Safari. She was not that thrilled about spending 10 days with dad and she loves hunting, but in the end, she is already talking about going back with me. I wish I would have taken her earlier because she is off to college next year and my time with her before she starts a job and family AFTER college is limited.

School can only teach her so much and this is a life experience that will teach her more in a few days than school could teach in years. We hunted in the eastern cape, on the drive back to the lodge from a side trip thru the town of Patterson, there was a stark reminder that we were in an area that most in the US cannot understand. Seeing the houses made with corrugated tin and farm animals in neighborhoods made my daughter understand the problems she encounters in the states are small in the big scheme of things and she more than ever understands that many of the local people that we encountered would happily pay her to have the problems that she has in the States.

This is an opportunity to start a tradition with your girls. You can take each one of them on a "special" trip when they are 13. Just the two of you. It will become something that they will remember for the rest of their lives. Don't miss it! You might even be able to take each of them on their own special hunting trip (Australia, Europe, Canada, New Zealand, Nambia, back to S. Africa).

This is from a father of two girls. One is a hunter the other not so much. My youngest is already planning her "Daddy / Daughter" trip to New York City.....I am the one who is not looking forward to spending two weeks in that city! But I am looking forward to the special time and memories I will be able to create with her.
Really liked your thought process here - Mike excited to see you stoke the fire in your daughter!
 
@mrpoindexter Great to hear you're going with rifle and bow. Will help set her up for success for sure.

I wouldn't worry too much about non-hunting activities. I brought my parents along on our first safari. Both were more interested in participating in the hunt, searching for game, tagging along on stalks, etc. than doing other activities. My dad ended up borrowing my rifle and taking a wildebeest and zebra before the trip was over!

Sounds like you guys are going to have a great time- looking forward to the report.
 
Here is an example of her shooting when she got a new sight for her first bow at the Sportsman's Warehouse one day. Granted, it was only 13 yards away, as they had a short range just for testing, but wow, she has skills.
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@mrpoindexter
My son was 14 and a half when we went to Namibia. He learned more in 3 weeks than a term/semester at school.
We visited an underprivileged school where he played with the kids. Playing soccer with them they ran him into the ground
These kids had so little yet they were happy. He learned that back home he was spoiled and wanted for nothing. The kids that share their time with him had nothing. He realized how fortunate he was and that you don't need a lot to be truly happy.
A good life lesson and life changing event for him.
Bob
 
@mrpoindexter
My son was 14 and a half when we went to Namibia. He learned more in 3 weeks than a term/semester at school.
We visited an underprivileged school where he played with the kids. Playing soccer with them they ran him into the ground
These kids had so little yet they were happy. He learned that back home he was spoiled and wanted for nothing. The kids that share their time with him had nothing. He realized how fortunate he was and that you don't need a lot to be truly happy.
A good life lesson and life changing event for him.
Bob


My ten-year-old son loved going on safari too. Learned more in 3 weeks in the bush than a semester at school. Got some nice hunting in with his bow and rifle when he was there too.

Take your kids on trips they'll never forget. More to life than North America and Europe my friends.
 
Going to Africa will give her a perspective that will change her life and outlook on the world. The first time gave me perspective, the second time humbled me and I think has forever changed my life. It teaches you how fortunate we are,how simple life can be, and how we have to work for the things we want. Of your wife wants her to grow up to be a humble and appreciative of this wonderful life we are all blessed with she will let her go. I see some of these reality shows and I pray that if I have a daughter these aren't the role models she is exposed to.

I think the bonding think is a good point. My dad and I could barely be in the same room with each other when I was a teenager, but we could share a duck blind. Those days are special ones.

If you are determine to us a bow, I would lighten the broadheads, I understand kentic energy, but big grain broadheads, bigger drop, speed kills and shot placement matters.

You could always get a crossbow? Or see if they have a rifle to rent. Let her decide and let her do it her way, whether it is the long stalk in the grass or the long wait in the blind. She will earn it and have a great time with her dad!

Oh and just load up on bitlong!
@living the dream
Don't load up on biltong , it's addictive and you find yourself making at home to feed your addiction.
But man o man it's nice. My mouth is watering typing this.
Bob
 
your daughter shoot a bow better than me and I have been doing it a long time and never split an arrow either shot nocks off plenty. As others have aluded to shooting paper and shooting a up close and personal live animal are 2 diff things and you are wise to take her on a hunt 1st? Some kids dont take well to watching an animal expire and some are stone cold killers, cant always tell which till 1st time. Sometimes the ones you expect to be a little squemish are just ruthless killers and the so called tough ones wither poorly. I have worked with alot of kids so this is from experience. So you need to know which she is before spending lot money in africa. What are you hunting for? Also I agree with others a nice 270 with a short stock for a kid would be a nice backup to have. Did you ever ask Mom why she is against the trip?
@Buckdog
Sorry to dissagre with you and others but I personally think the 270s recoil will be a bit sharp for her.
I would go for a 7mm08 or 7x57. Both would get the job done without the sharp kick of the 270. The Savage youth model would be ideal as it will grow with her.
Bob
 
I would come at it from a selfish standpoint. My best turkey hunts always have my daughter in the blind with me. It is great for the kiddos but its pretty awesome for Dad too!
 
@Buckdog
Sorry to dissagre with you and others but I personally think the 270s recoil will be a bit sharp for her.
I would go for a 7mm08 or 7x57. Both would get the job done without the sharp kick of the 270. The Savage youth model would be ideal as it will grow with her.
Bob
The post about the .270 was made in 2017. I'd bet she could shoot it now. :ROFLMAO:
 

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