ChasingHemingway
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- Joined
- May 16, 2010
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- Fair Oaks Ranch, Texas
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- SCI ; Rowland Ward
- Hunted
- United States ; South Africa
Really liked your thought process here - Mike excited to see you stoke the fire in your daughter!1. Father Daughter Bonding
2. Life Lessons
3. Starting Traditions
Father Daughter bonding! This is an amazing opportunity for the two of you to spend some quality time together and an opportunity that you may not get again with your oldest daughter. I recently took my 17 y/o daughter on her first Safari. She was not that thrilled about spending 10 days with dad and she loves hunting, but in the end, she is already talking about going back with me. I wish I would have taken her earlier because she is off to college next year and my time with her before she starts a job and family AFTER college is limited.
School can only teach her so much and this is a life experience that will teach her more in a few days than school could teach in years. We hunted in the eastern cape, on the drive back to the lodge from a side trip thru the town of Patterson, there was a stark reminder that we were in an area that most in the US cannot understand. Seeing the houses made with corrugated tin and farm animals in neighborhoods made my daughter understand the problems she encounters in the states are small in the big scheme of things and she more than ever understands that many of the local people that we encountered would happily pay her to have the problems that she has in the States.
This is an opportunity to start a tradition with your girls. You can take each one of them on a "special" trip when they are 13. Just the two of you. It will become something that they will remember for the rest of their lives. Don't miss it! You might even be able to take each of them on their own special hunting trip (Australia, Europe, Canada, New Zealand, Nambia, back to S. Africa).
This is from a father of two girls. One is a hunter the other not so much. My youngest is already planning her "Daddy / Daughter" trip to New York City.....I am the one who is not looking forward to spending two weeks in that city! But I am looking forward to the special time and memories I will be able to create with her.