Africa - Someone is going - thanks
So Africa ...never visited....always wanted too.
A few years ago I lost my mother-in law to cancer.
I will never forget the day she told me she had cancer. We talked about the beast that day but never again.
She was in and out of the hospital for surgeries,chemo, more surgeries, this that and the other thing until the doctors said it was time to take her home one last time.
Over the next few months the beast slowly drained the life right out of her. The cancer grew taking away her ability to walk and eventually every human dignity. Weeks passed as the beast finished its job, but I treasured ever last moment with her. One day I arrived she had lost her ability to speak and the following day with her family by her side she passed away peacefully.
She was a tuff old bird right to the end of year long battle with the cancer beast. Never complained. Not once. Always thankful. Religion and family was everything to her. She passed away virtually penniless in today's monetary standards, and yet she seemed rich beyond belief.
I learned allot about life and death from my mother in-law.
Not to long after I created a list of things to work on prior to my demise.....you know "THE BUCKET LIST".
- HEALTH
- FUN - AT WORK & PLAY
- WEALTH / FINANCIAL FREEDOM
- EARLY RETIREMENT
- MAKE A DIFFERENCE
- SPEND MORE TIME FAMILY
- TEACH A CHILD SOMETHING…EX:FISHING,HUNTING,CANOEING,ETC….
- CONTRIBUTE MORE $ CHARITIES
- HELP OTHERS OBTAIN GOALS
- LAND/LAKE HOUSE
- AFRICA
- ONE NICE TRIP PER YEAR
-- LEAVE LEGACY
I have been slow trying to accomplish the items on my list. Notice the AFRICA entry. Many years have pasted by since I first dreamed of going to Africa. Every year some how the monetary funds get diverted to higher priorities. In these tough economic times the Africa dream seems like an unobtainable goal yet I continue to watch and read everything about Africa. Drives my wife crazy
I have purchased some new hunting weapons for my upcoming trips. A 50 caliber muzzle loader,300 Win Mag, 375 H &H, and a new long bow. I have been practicing with the new rifles for the last few months at varies ranges from 25 yards to 300 yards and my new long bow almost shoots itself. Getting ready for a trip is half the fun
I think it would be exciting to shoot some of the plains game with the long bow at a water hole blind. Spot and stalk with the rifle or muzzleloader would also be excellent adventure. Ultimately, I want to shoot a Cape Buffalo.
Hunting for me it has never been about the actual animal harvest. Don't get me wrong I would like to shoot a trophy animal just like any other hunter, but for me it is more about the total experience. Africa would be a new adventure. A new place,smells,sounds,sights,animals,culture,and a chance to make new friends in a far away place.
My friends ask me - why do you want to go to Africa? I always answer because I have not been to Africa and why would you not want to go?. Africa - with its huge variety of wildlife,landscape,people,scenery,etc.... They always come back with saying ...NO way to Africa due to medical concerns like malaria,dangerous game,snakes,poverty,unrest,general unstable conditions, and 10 other negative reasons. My mother in law taught me to always try to be the type of person the glass is half full and filling not half empty. She said it would make life easier. Besides have you ever read or talked to anybody who has been to Africa that does not want to return?
I wonder when I finally get to Africa will I be able to soak her all in in one trip? Probably Not. Maybe I will react like my new puppy seeing snow for the first time. Get so dam excited run around in circles as if saying this is just too cool.....
I figure Africa is like my mother-in law. She has good and bad traits but her influence will change your life forever and you will always want to be with her. She will give back more than you ever give her.
Now I am pushing 48 ......Tick Tock Tick Tock Tick Tock. Who knows when your clock is going to stop!
Please make the most of every day. Dream BIG and set the goals HIGH.
Lets see if I die penniless maybe a trip a every other year
Thanks for giving someone the opportunity to complete their dream with this free hunt.