I agree with you both on this point, a 1:10 is the norm for a .30 caliber. Being able to stabilize a 200-220 grain bullet would be really nice. I believe
@Red Leg uses a 200 grain (or maybe 220) with his 300WM Blaser barrel and punches 3-shot dime sized holes.
I'm planning on using the Barnes TTSX 165 or 150 grain ammo so I checked the bullet stability calculator on Berger Bullets for my specific gravity (SG) for 1:11 and 1:10 twist rates.
Barnes TTSX 165 grain with 1:11 twist rate is marginally stable at 1.44 SG
Barnes TTSX 165 grain with 1:10 twist rate is comfortably stable at 1.74 SG
Barnes TTSX 150 grain with 1:11 twist rate is comfortably stable at 1.6 SG
Barnes TTSX 150 grain with 1:10 twist rate is comfortably stable at 1.94 SG
I'll buy a box of each and see how they do, although Mrs BeeMaa's 300WM likes the 165 grain TTSX and it's a 1:11 twist.