Well, whatever the final decision is, its going to be her choice--this isnt my first rodeo...
Yep.You're a wise man.
Sturdy? You're a brave man Velo Dog!!
You will note that I did not say "large" (because she truly is not a large woman at all).
I meant "sturdy woman" in a context that would pertain to a woman such as Konan The Barbarian's girlfriend, Valaria and similar "type A" females.
At least that's my story and I'm sticking with it.

We are in Merry Land, so finding a "well stocked" gun shop is problematic. For a number of reasons, maybe not even good reasons, I have narrowed the choices down to a few -- not the least being too much info is too much info to make a good choice when you really don't know what you don't know.
To further complicate the matter I have a Gemtech HVT762 suppressor in paperwork jail. Its a heavy can (28 oz's; but its a quick detach so she wont be carrying mounted till we get in the blind). My thought is the suppressor will work like a muzzle break as much as sound suppressing.
Heres what I'm thinking
Rem Model 7
Rem 700
Ruger M77
Ruger No1
Tikka T3
And MAYBE
Merkel KR1
T/C Encore
Cartridges under review
7mm 08
6.5x55
7x57
308 is the gold standard. If she can tolerate the recoil/weight/rifle. I'm also playing with lighter weight bullets/loads.
I like the concept of the Encore/Merkel's ability to swop barrels, so she can grow with the gun.