It takes two to tango...
This is a great question, to which I am very sensitive myself as I have zero desire to kill, zero desire to shoot (I do that at home on steel plate), and am only interested in the hunt...
I believe
BeeMaa and
Cam Moon are offering 99% of the answer, in as much as the PH will generally adapt to the client's desires and capabilities, within the realm of the reasonably possible.
This being said, and because the PH is the partner in your dance, his perspective is also important. Based on experience with numerous clients and numerous PHs, here are, in a somewhat progressing order, a couple ways the arriving client influences his PH's perspective, and a couple things your PH will be looking at to develop his opinion of what the safari will be; what you actually want; what you actually can; and how he will interact with you:
- Do you show up at the airport dressed like Stewart Granger on the set of The Last Safari 1967 movie? Oh yes, it happens...
- Do you spend the driving time from airport to lodge telling him how good a hunter and shooter you are? You would not believe how frequent it is...
- Do you look like and behave like at a complete loss when handling your rifle at the range? I promise you, there have been PHs asked to mount the scope on their client's new rifle. Hint: the purpose of shooting the rifle at the range is not really to check the rifle's zero, it is to check to client's handling of, safety with, and skills with the rifle...
- Can you shoot from the sticks? There are darn few shooting benches in the bush...
- Do you show up at the hunting truck for the first hunt with brand new boots? This one says that you have not hunted much, and will likely not want to walk more than 500 ft. from the truck...
- Do you show up at the hunting truck without binoculars? This one says all a PH needs to know about whether you intend to hunt or shoot...
- Do you drop a tape measure in the truck console? Oh my...
- Do you ask if you will be shooting from the truck? This one tells the PH that fair chase is not a concept that you either understand or care for...
- How long is your belt knife? This will say whether you ever skinned an animal (i.e. hunted), and whether you confuse a real-life safari with a Rambo movie...
- Do you wear a culling belt loaded to the last loop with 20 or more rounds? This will tell whether you have a realistic understanding of what a modern safari is...
- Are you realistic about your physical shape and marksmanship? It is a mistake to think that PH dream about biathlon scoot & shoot athletes...
- Did you come to Africa to play sniper? The current scourge of safari hunting...
- Is it progressively becoming obvious that you say what you think he wants to hear rather than what you actually think, and/or that you are a practitioner of "do as I say, not as I do" (e.g. do you behave unsportsmanlike after having entertained him for hours chatting about how highly you value sportsmanship). This tells as much about you as a person, as it does as a hunter...
- Do you confuse trackers, skinners, camp staffs, etc. with indented servitude "boys"? In case someone did not notice, apartheid ended in 1994...
- Etc.
The reality is that there ARE a couple PHs out there who either have never understood that this is the client's safari - not their own - and that they are in the service business, or who are totally burnt-out by the requirement to have to restart at square one every time they pick up a new client at the airport. In either case, they end up carting the client along from one sad shot to the next...
But there are darn few of them, and they generally do not work very long for successful outfitters, as they are promptly weeded out.
Things are more complicated when they are the one-man-show outfitter/operator/owner/PH and the only thing that can weed them out is making such a bad reputation for themselves that no one will hunt with them anymore. But even that is not a certainty, as some clients may not dare provide bad references, or feel pressure to belong to the happy club of those who praise their PH. Another angle is that the very low prices these below-par outfitter/operator/owner/PH have to offer to remain attractive, may motivate some clients to come back with the knowledge that the human experience will be poor, but the hunt will cost half the going rate. This is fair choice, but only if it is made knowingly...
The reality that all PHs are not wonderful being acknowledged, the fact is that the overwhelming majority of PHs are good people, good hunters, and far prefer to hunt hard with hunting clients, rather than cull with disinterested shooters...
In so many words, and again as
BeeMaa recommended, talk with your PH. Not
to your PH, but
with your PH. He wants nothing more than your happiness, and the bragging right among his peers that his client shot the best trophies (i.e. he guided him to them), and the inevitable royal tip that you will extatically leave him after a successful safari, not to mention the god-like glorification you will make of him in your upcoming AH.com hunt review.
There are limits to the concept in as much as it is the rare PH who will let you drive his pride & joy Landcruiser, and you have to realistically understand that he knows the place and the animals better then you do.
But if you have been hunting seriously for 30 years, which may be longer than many young PH have lived, you may very well have as much hunting experience as your PH, and it is actually quite easy to establish a peer relation with a good PH, provided that you actually ARE his peer in the hunting fields and that you could guide him on your home turf as well as he guides you on his home turf. In which case you are hunting together, he is not hunting for you.
In summary, your safari, and whether you hunt or just shoot, are almost entirely in your own hands, and you can make it what you want it. The bottom line is that this is your time, your money, your safari, hence you are the boss ... but the best bosses know that surrounding themselves with the best and listening to them is the key to success...