Life Advice

[Tex .416]

I am working on writing up some thoughts for a nephew about to graduate and go off into the world. I definitely have lots of thoughts, but given this forum is a nice gathering of men who have done well in life and lived some adventures, I am interested in advice and pearls of wisdom from this group of men and the handful of women here too.

 

[John the Electrician]

I write the same thing on every graduation card I give.

“The choices you make today build the foundation for your future, choose wisely.”


My wife often tells our son “the most important decision you will make in your life is who you pick to marry. Make sure she loves you and is NICE to you.”

John the electrician

 

[Altitude sickness]

Don’t fry bacon naked

 

[Huvius]

There are couple little quips that I like but aren’t necessarily something that would be inspirational for a young man - so take that as it is…

First one:
You wouldn’t worry so much about what other people think of you if you knew how rarely they did…

And:
People do things that you cannot understand and its probably better that you don’t try to…

Both have served me well over the years.

 

[Lone Star Bluegrass]

I write the same thing on every graduation card I give.

“The choices you make today build the foundation for your future, choose wisely.”


My wife often tells our son “the most important decision you will make in your life is who you pick to marry. Make sure she loves you and is NICE to you.”

John the electrician

I’ll echo this. Getting married should be one of the easiest decisions you’ll make.

You can only go so wrong with an ‘06.

Write it down so you don’t have to remember.

Never miss an opportunity to talk to an old veteran.

Learn a foreign language at as young an age as possible.

Don’t miss your generation’s war.

Idle hands are the devil’s work. You should have a sport or hobby for every season of the year.

 

[BryceM]

Find your moral center, then strive to stay true to it.

 

[Daisy]

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Proverbs 3:3-6​

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3Let love and faithfulness never leave you;
bind them around your neck,
write them on the tablet of your heart.
4Then you will win favor and a good name
in the sight of God and man.
5Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
6in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.

 

[Tundra Tiger]

This morning I learned that a former student succumbed to cancer a few days ago. She was 37 and a wonderful person. She had a favorite quote that is perhaps general in nature but relevant:

"Enjoy the gift of an ordinary day."

 

[PerH]

It’s with new guns as redheads , have some more cash saved up than you think is needed .

Don’t let others dreams and fantasies become your nightmare

 

[MarkinMI]

...my older sister gave me this plaque when I graduated from college, the most unlikely collegiate candidate in a not-so-well-to-do family of 8.
I was fortunate enough to have an uncle in my formative years that lived this philosophy, and many a young man benefitted from his wisdom, and patience.
I was blessed w/a son of my own to continue this legacy (and a whole squad of nephews), and this past August took him on our first African safari, a trip that was well-beyond our wildest expectations (yes, I will finish my hunt report story, soon).
Be humble, kind, thankful and empathetic and you'll be surprised how grand life can be...

 

[franzfmdavis]

These are all very heartfelt responses and I have enjoyed reading it very much!

When my son was born just under three years ago, I bought him a watch on the day he was born and wrote him a card for when I plan to give it to him years down the line:

To our son,

“All we have to do is decide what to do with the time that is given us.” - Tolkien

You mother and I bought you this watch on you birthday so that you always remember the most precious resource you have each day of your life is time. The only thing more precious than your time is who you spend it with.

Life is just a collection of decisions limited by time, so be curious and explore the world at each turn while you have the capacity to enjoy it.

Time flies - the good news is you are the pilot, so as your grandfather and namesake used to say to me: “aim high!”

We love you always!

Your Mom and Dad

 

[K-man]

Learn from your mistakes.
Learn more from other peoples mistakes.

 

[franzfmdavis]

I’d also came up with a quote once, which I periodically reference:

“Offer nothing short of what you expect, and accept nothing short of what you deserve.”